Posts Tagged ‘Why’

It Has to Lead to Contribution

Friday, April 29th, 2011

The last few years have been espe­cially hard on most of us. Heck, nor­mal life with­out the ram­i­fi­ca­tions of this global eco­nomic melt­down was chal­leng­ing enough. The sad real­ity is that many peo­ple we work with have begun to ques­tion their abil­ity to con­tribute. Maybe we’ve even had those doubts our­selves at times.

Are you hear­ing and believ­ing any of the following?

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Why?

Friday, June 4th, 2010

Do you know the answer to this ques­tion? Dis­cov­er­ing “why” is crit­i­cal to so many areas of our busi­ness and our lives.

We all walk through life hear­ing about what we should do to improve. Still, most of us strug­gle with chang­ing our behavior.

Over the years, I have coached thou­sands of peo­ple in one-on-one or group ses­sions. Most of these coach­ing con­ver­sa­tions revolved around the topic of improve­ment — qual­ity of life, busi­ness results, health, rela­tion­ships, team per­for­mance. Peo­ple typ­i­cally hire a coach because they believe they will have a bet­ter chance of mak­ing the nec­es­sary changes with a coach on their team.

And of course, I agree!

The prob­lem is that almost all of these improved results require improved behav­iors, and behav­ior is not eas­ily changed. If we want to change our behav­ior, we must change our think­ing. And to change our think­ing, we must be able to clearly define “why.”

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