Posts Tagged ‘Family’

In Marriage, You Have No Rights

Thursday, January 21st, 2010

Daniel Harkavy Jan­u­ary 21, 2010 Blog Post from Build­ing Cham­pi­ons on Vimeo.

There is No Substitute for One on One Time

Thursday, January 7th, 2010

Today has been a won­der­ful day!  It began with an early morn­ing meet­ing with a friend who has been men­tor­ing me for the last 13 years.  Recently, my time with him has been less fre­quent, but when­ever I am with him I learn and grow.  Our meet­ing took place at my favorite local cof­fee house here in Lake Oswego.  He was pour­ing into me.

Father and DaughterAfter an hour and a half, he left, and one of my sons came by.  He is 17, and is fin­ish­ing up his senior year with some classes at our local com­mu­nity col­lege.  The pur­pose of our one on one time was to con­nect and take a look at his plan for the next quar­ter.  It was an oppor­tu­nity for me to lis­ten to him and to con­nect at a deeper level.  I was able to pour into him.

The rea­son I wanted to share with you about my morn­ing is to chal­lenge you to think about how you will spend your time this year. 

Are you proac­tively sched­ul­ing one on one time with those you care for most?

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Sorry is Not Good Enough

Thursday, December 10th, 2009

Here is the sit­u­a­tion:  a team­mate, spouse, friend or child has wronged you.  They failed to meet an expec­ta­tion or — worse yet — they were inten­tion­ally uncar­ing or rude to you.  This painful wound causes you to be vis­i­bly upset as you con­front them on their insen­si­tive or self­ish action.

This moment could be a beau­ti­ful learn­ing and grow­ing oppor­tu­nity for you and the culprit….or it could lead to a bat­tle of enor­mous pro­por­tions.  You, the vic­tim, con­front the offender. 

They respond like this: 

 “Sorry!” 

Sorry resize

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