Posts Tagged ‘DISC’

Can You Feel It?

Wednesday, July 21st, 2010

I had a coach­ing ses­sion last week with a client who owns a great com­pany here in the North­west. Like many busi­ness lead­ers, his nat­ural behav­ioral style is on the dom­i­nant side, which means he is a take-charge kind of guy. For those of you famil­iar with the DISC behav­ioral lan­guage, he is a High D.

I know this type very, very well.

Stud­ies have shown that there is a cor­re­lat­ing emo­tion for each behav­ioral style which emerges when that per­son is frus­trated or chal­lenged. For a High D, the emo­tion is anger.

In this ses­sion, my client shared that he feels some very real phys­i­cal changes when he is being chal­lenged or threat­ened. What he expe­ri­enced has every­thing to do with Emo­tional Intel­li­gence, or EQ.

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Are You Speaking the Same Language?

Tuesday, November 17th, 2009

LanguageA few months ago I had the won­der­ful priv­i­lege of hav­ing an exec­u­tive client come to my office for a full-day coach­ing ses­sion.  The pur­pose of the extended ses­sion was to help her sharpen the skills required for her to advance as a leader in her com­pany.  My client is incred­i­bly smart, a very hard worker, well respected and pas­sion­ate about her long­stand­ing role in this inter­na­tional orga­ni­za­tion.  She is also the high­est rank­ing female leader in her male dom­i­nated firm. 

We planned to spend the day work­ing on her soft skills so that she could improve how she inter­acts with the var­i­ous behav­ioral styles within her com­pany and exec­u­tive team.  One of the more pow­er­ful exer­cises we worked on was to dive deep into the DISC language. 

If you are not famil­iar with DISC, I pro­vided an overview in last week’s blog, Under­stand­ing DISC.

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Understanding DISC

Thursday, November 12th, 2009

NewDISCWheelWhether you are a leader, a sales­per­son, a spouse, a friend, or all of the above, your suc­cess in life depends greatly on how you com­mu­ni­cate with oth­ers.  Some peo­ple appear to sail through life nat­u­rally blessed with inter­per­sonal skills, while oth­ers just seem to strug­gle.  But I believe that any­one can learn to be a bet­ter communicator.

I have found that the more accu­rately you under­stand the behav­ioral lan­guage of your­self and oth­ers, the eas­ier it will be for you to com­mu­ni­cate effec­tively with them.  At the root of most behav­ioral study lies the DISC assessment—an effec­tive, easy-to-learn and easy-to-utilize com­mu­ni­ca­tion tool. 

In what fol­lows, I’d like to give you a basic, work­ing knowl­edge of DISC.

The DISC pro­file reveals your nat­ural behav­ioral style (how you intrin­si­cally oper­ate) and your adapted behav­ioral style (how you respond to the demands of var­i­ous envi­ron­ments). The results sug­gest how indi­vid­u­als of a par­tic­u­lar behav­ioral style tend to act, com­mu­ni­cate, and respond emo­tion­ally in four dif­fer­ent contexts.   

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