I had a coaching session last week with a client who owns a great company here in the Northwest. Like many business leaders, his natural behavioral style is on the dominant side, which means he is a take-charge kind of guy. For those of you familiar with the DISC behavioral language, he is a High D.
I know this type very, very well.
Studies have shown that there is a correlating emotion for each behavioral style which emerges when that person is frustrated or challenged. For a High D, the emotion is anger.
In this session, my client shared that he feels some very real physical changes when he is being challenged or threatened. What he experienced has everything to do with Emotional Intelligence, or EQ.

A few months ago I had the wonderful privilege of having an executive client come to my office for a full-day coaching session. The purpose of the extended session was to help her sharpen the skills required for her to advance as a leader in her company. My client is incredibly smart, a very hard worker, well respected and passionate about her longstanding role in this international organization. She is also the highest ranking female leader in her male dominated firm.
Whether you are a leader, a salesperson, a spouse, a friend, or all of the above, your success in life depends greatly on how you communicate with others. Some people appear to sail through life naturally blessed with interpersonal skills, while others just seem to struggle. But I believe that anyone can learn to be a better communicator.

