Be Hungry and Humble (Increasing Your Leadership Capacity Series — Step 4 of 8)

Increasing our leadership capacity requires more than just knowledge. It truly requires us to be fully engaged and passionate in the cause. We must change and grow, which means we must enter into the uncomfortable zone. As leaders, we need to always start with ourselves when we want to make an organization improve. The question of “how must I change or adapt in order for this initiative or improvement to take root” is a great starting point. Note: This post is part of a series on Increasing Your Leadership Capacity. Click here for the previous step.
This step comes from a lesson our Building Champions leadership team learned a few years back during a partner planning and connection session with our friends at Patrick Lencioni’s company, The Table Group. Patrick shared that one of their convictions was to be humble and hungry.
As I look at what is required to truly increase my leadership capacity (and then our team’s), I see that I must be humble and hungry. A while back I did a post titled “How Little I Know.” In it, I wrote about how the best leaders are really comfortable with acknowledging where they need help.
It feels so counterintuitive to most who have bought the old-school command and control leadership mindset. But when a leader is both humble and hungry, you have a leader who is best equipped to grow and to bring others along on the journey. This hunger is to not only learn, but to grow, to serve, to improve, to stretch, to impact others, and to create something of even greater significance.
Here are 5 practical tips for those of you who desire to grow your leadership capacity and see the opportunity to fully embrace humility and hunger as key steps in the process.
1. Ask more questions. Don’t worry about whether they will cause you to appear to not know it all. You don’t — and those around you already know this!
2. Truly listen to the answers and ask clarifying questions to make sure you really have what you need in order to grow. Often this means spending time asking the right questions and really listening to your customer-facing teammates (those on the front lines delivering your products or services), and then spending more time doing the same with your customers.
3. Slow down. Often times leaders believe that they must be the fastest movers on their teams. This is a huge mistake. We need to slow down so we can connect and listen if we want to see the things we would miss when we are moving too fast. This can look like scheduled margin time with nothing on your calendar other than time to respond, to think, and to be available. (This is one key area for me to grow in the year ahead.) We must remember that we leaders are more than thermometers; we are thermostats. Our pace and our interactions with those around us will impact our culture, our customer experience, and our results.
4. Think more — both alone and with those on your leadership team. A humble leader knows she doesn’t have all the answers and that her products or services could be improved, so she has intentional time to think alone and collaboratively with those on her leadership team.
5. Invite sharpening. Ask for those you respect and trust to call you out when your behaviors and actions don’t line up with who you are and your convictions. This can look like being okay and grateful when one of your teammates lets you know that your posture or words are coming across as defensive instead of hungry. (I will do another post on this tip in the weeks ahead.)
Growing means entering into the uncomfortable zone. But by being humble and hungry, the pain is far less severe than the pain and frustration of plateauing.
Note: This post is part of a series on Increasing Your Leadership Capacity.
Step 1: Own Your Role
Step 2: Be Healthy
Step 3: 6 Steps to Improve Your Thinking
Related posts:
- 6 Steps to Improve Your Thinking (Increasing Your Leadership Capacity Series — Step 3 of 8)
- 8 Steps to Increase Your Leadership Capacity (Series)
- They Must Leave Better Than They Arrived
- Me First!
- Leadership Moment: Attacking Conflict
Tags: Attitude, Growth, Humility, Improvement, Increasing Your Leadership Capacity, Leadership, Self Development



