Archive for January, 2010

There is No Substitute for One on One Time

Thursday, January 7th, 2010

Today has been a won­der­ful day!  It began with an early morn­ing meet­ing with a friend who has been men­tor­ing me for the last 13 years.  Recently, my time with him has been less fre­quent, but when­ever I am with him I learn and grow.  Our meet­ing took place at my favorite local cof­fee house here in Lake Oswego.  He was pour­ing into me.

Father and DaughterAfter an hour and a half, he left, and one of my sons came by.  He is 17, and is fin­ish­ing up his senior year with some classes at our local com­mu­nity col­lege.  The pur­pose of our one on one time was to con­nect and take a look at his plan for the next quar­ter.  It was an oppor­tu­nity for me to lis­ten to him and to con­nect at a deeper level.  I was able to pour into him.

The rea­son I wanted to share with you about my morn­ing is to chal­lenge you to think about how you will spend your time this year. 

Are you proac­tively sched­ul­ing one on one time with those you care for most?

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Goal or Discipline?

Tuesday, January 5th, 2010

Many blogs are being writ­ten right now on the topic of New Year’s res­o­lu­tions and goals for the year ahead.  This is NOT one of them.

Runner on StairsToday I want to clear up some con­fu­sion we com­monly see in the minds of our clients.  This con­fu­sion is around the dif­fer­ence between a goal and a discipline. 

To put it sim­ply, a goal is the end result you’re aim­ing for.  A dis­ci­pline is the behav­ior or task you must repeat, over and over, to achieve the result you want.  A goal is an idea that moti­vates you.  A dis­ci­pline is an action that moves you forward.

At Build­ing Cham­pi­ons, we coach our clients to gain clar­ity on which dis­ci­plines they must estab­lish in order for them to have the high­est prob­a­bil­ity of reach­ing their goals.  If the client is to suc­ceed, these dis­ci­plines must be non-negotiable.   We like to focus on the behav­iors that define how we live and lead. 

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